Ivy’s harrowing journey from systemic neglect to courage and freedom

Published on 16 January 2026

The Cessnock Library team is proud to host the launch of a new book about defiance, resilience, and the transformative power of love in the face of institutional cruelty.

Local resident Ivy Getchell has partnered with award-winning author Eila Jameson-Avey to tell her story in Ivy, Refusing to Hate: From State Ward to Survivor. The pair will officially launch the powerful memoir at Cessnock Library, where they will speak and sign copies of the book, between 5.30pm and 7pm on Wednesday 21 January.

In 1945, 12-year-old Ivy was sent to the infamous Parramatta Girls Training School, branded a “moral danger” and stripped of her mother’s cherished locket. Over the next four decades, Ivy’s life became a harrowing journey through systemic neglect - a brief reprieve at Thornleigh was followed by a traumatic foster placement, and a return to Parramatta, where she was labelled a “criminal”. Her first marriage offered no escape – only abuse and the theft of her children. Yet Ivy’s spirit, anchored by memories of her parents’ love, refused to yield. With the support of her husband Frank, she reclaimed her voice, freedom, and the courage to hope beyond the shadows of her past.

Decades later, her story became part of the Forgotten Australians Inquiry and Royal Commission, illuminating the trauma endured by thousands under Australia’s institutional system.

Through Eila’s lyrical prose and Ivy’s unflinching voice, the book reveals how love can become a weapon against despair, and how one woman’s journey inspires generations to reject hatred in the face of injustice.

Acting Library Services Co-ordinator Andrew Powell said Ivy’s story was a mirror to our past and a beacon for our future.

"It challenges us to confront the scars of institutional systems while celebrating the unyielding light of the human spirit," said Mr Powell.

Bookings are essential for this free event. Reserve your spot by visiting the Library website or calling Cessnock Library on 4993 4399.